Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Should Friend Become Lover?








Satu persoalan yg susah nk dijawab, kerana apabila kt dh berkawan dgn someone, adekah kt nk take risk kerana apabila kt dh decide nk bcinta dgn kwn kt, kt x boleh nk berpatah balik?

Tp tu semua bergantung kt individu & keadaan time tu la. If kwn korg tu nak korg jd kwn dia je camne? adakah korg still terima dia as a fren or korg still xleh terima kenyataan yg dia tu hanya nk berkwn dgn korg?

Mcm yg aku ckp td, semua bergantung pada individu. Ada org yg prefer berkwn dulu b4 bercinta dgn sbb diorang nk kenal hati budi dulu & ada org yg mmg btol2 nk berkwn shj.

Bg aku la, aku x reti nk mengorat secara direct, that's why aku prefer berkwn dulu but then nnt at the end org ingat aku mmg nk berkwn je. Maybe la kan, so persoalan kt sini..when we approach someone yg we love at 1st, should kt tanye dia nk berkwn dulu atau tros approach ckp kt dia kt suka dia? something yg aku xleh jwb..coz aku x fhm, tu aku tanye korang..haha :P


p/s: i love u


22 comments:

  1. Syafiq: haha..kalau x bole pn bkwn pn ok la kot..hoho

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  2. hmm..
    ssh jugak nk jawab topik ni.
    sbb ade jugak org yg mmg niat nk b'kawan shj tp last2 ended up jatuh hati plak kt kwn dia tuh.
    we'll never know aite.
    situasi mcm tula yg ssh nk handle.
    coz kte xtau whether kwn kita tuh ade perasaan kt kita jugak ke x.
    tp, kalau masing2 pny perasaan yg same.
    xsalah untuk friends become lovers :)
    lagi satu, risau kalau2 perasaan cinta tuh boleh menyebabkan keretakan friendship dgn kwn tuh. huhu

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  3. mia.azlin: tu ar ssh nk jwb..coz ade experience camni, style mal mmg berkwn dulu..huhu

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  4. saya lebih suka bercinta dgn kawan sdri sbb lagi knal die ;)

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  5. lini: haa tu yg sy nk dgr tu..better bkwn dulu kn? coz bole kenal hati budi..xde la tbe2 main terjah ckp kt suka org tu..well lain la kalau org tu mmg ske sy, so dia accept la..hoho

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  6. ak pon xphm gk mal...pada ak la..xkn 1st time jumpe trus nk approach kn...so berkawan dlu..tapi akhirnya berkawan sampai sudah..x dpt nk kapel pon...huhhuuhu

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  7. perempuan boleh jadi tkt when laki terlampau tergesa2. go approach. :D but in the cool n relax way. ;) kalau u kawan lama sgt pun nnt tkt kene kebas. ssh jgk :D make sense kan? :)

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  8. pepol: tu ar yg kt nk elak..gelojoh pn xleh kn? haish..aku mmg xfhm sgt bab2 cinta..

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  9. izzaty: i know..that's kene kwn lame skit kn? tp mmg tpulang kt individu la, kalau dh lame pn still ade yg x ready..kene kebas tu yg kt tanak tgk tu..sedey...huhu
    :(

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  10. nice entry bro! aku ni pemalu orangnye. pastu xde byk sangat ilmu cintan2 ni. tapi kalo kawan rapat sangat pon bahaye gak.
    omputih cakap: beware of 'friend zone'
    ade orang cakap, bila dah kawan super punya, dah tak leh nk convert jadi lover. cam awkward la pulak kan.

    try tgk movie ni bro: Just Friends (2005)

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  11. Bob Merley: Just Friends? ok nnt aku tgk..tgu blk umah bru leh download, kt umah sewa slow siput..haha
    tu ar..aku nk elak camtu la, b4 awkward better try convert jd lover..tp awal sgt pn x bole..mcm gelojoh gak, so diri sendiri gak kene taw ble timing yg btol..tu yg leceh tu..aku pening..haha

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  12. lelaki dan perempuan tak boleh berkawan.akan bercinta juga akhirnya nanti...percayalah.hehehe

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  13. Imran nyambek: hehe tq pcaya camtu..

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  14. better kwn dlu la, tp jgn jd besfren pulak, melepas kan haha :P masa kawan tu, try la approach dye slow slow. bg hint la yg u suka kt dye, then baru la ajak kapel hihihihi :D

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  15. bro, aku rs pun kena stat dgn kawan dulu,
    then baru kita tahulah, kalo dia pun suka kita,
    kita boleh nmpak, lepas tu br la amek langkah seterusnya..

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  16. AMALIN: slalu ble dh jd bestfren la baru ade rase cinta kan? tu yg susah tu..hahaha

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  17. Dim: slalunya camtu la, kne start dgn kwn..pelan2 kayuh, tp xleh apply kt semua org..lain org lain cara..huhu

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  18. haha.gone through this situation before :D bestie sndr approached, disebabkn dh rapat sgt, sbb tu sng nk trime. but, tak lame. taktau knape. agknye dye lagi selesa bekawan drpd jadi lover.hehe. yg penting, sampai sekarang he stil my bestie! :) for you pulak, just jangan tergopoh sngt..criozly, sdh bile dye tarik balik his word, tapi sebab syg kt dye, we stil bestie. same goes tu u! jgn gopoh2 oke?? kadang2, kite kompius feeling syg as kwn and syg more than kawan. tu ur decision. btw, gud lark! ;)

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  19. ieka: semua takes time la kot..kan? thanks for your advice :)

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  20. kawan duluuuu... but then dont take a long time.. coz soon gurlz tuh dah ada orang lain melepas lak kan..pandai2x timing ok.. good luck bro,

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  21. qaqa: timing tu yg kt xtaw tu..susah ar bro..tp kalau aku melepas pn aku redha..bkn x syg, dh org x syg kt..huhu

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